Pushpa
Basnet doesn't need an alarm clock. Everymorning, the sounds of 40 children
wake her up in the two-story home she shares with them. As she helps the
children dress for school, Basnet might appear to be a housemother of sorts.
But the real story is more complicated. All of these children once lived in
Nepal's prisons. This 28-year-old woman has saved every one of them from a life
behind bars .Nepal is one of the poorest countries in the world -- according to
UNICEF, 55% of the population lives below the international poverty line, so it
lacks the social safety net that exists in most Western nations. Space is extremely limited in
the few children's homes affiliated with the government.
So when no local guardian is available,
an arrested parent often must choose between bringing their children to jail
with them or letting them live on the streets. Nepal's Department of Prison
Management estimates 80 children live in the nation's prisons.
"It's not fair for (these)
children to live in the prison because they haven't done anything wrong,"
said Basnet, who started a nongovernmental organization to help. "My
mission is to make sure no child grows up behind prison walls."
Basnet is one of several in Nepal who
have started groups to get children out of prison. Since 2005, she has assisted
more than 100 children of incarcerated parents. She runs a day care program for
children under 6 and a residential home where mostly older children receive
education, food, medical care and a chance to live a more normal life.
"I had a very fortunate life, with
a good education," Basnet said. "I should give it to somebody
else."
Basnet was just 21 when she discovered
her calling, she said. While her family ran a successful business, she was
studying social work in college. As part of her studies, she visited a women's
prison and was appalled by the dire conditions. She also was shocked to
discover children living behind bars.
One baby girl grabbed Basnet's shawl
and gave her a big smile.
"I felt she was calling me,"
Basnet said. "I went back home and told my parents about it. They told me
it was a normal thing and that in a couple of days I'd forget it. But I
couldn't forget."
Basnet decided to start a day care to
get incarcerated children out from behind the prison walls. While her parents
were against the idea at first -- she had no job or way to sustain it
financially -- eventually they helped support her. But prison officials,
government workers and even some of the imprisoned mothers she approached
doubted that someone her age could handle such a project.
"When I started, nobody believed
in me," Basnet said. "People thought I was crazy. They laughed at
me."
But Basnet was undaunted. She got
friends to donate money, and she rented a building in Kathmandu to house her
new organization, the Early Childhood Development Center. She furnished it largely
by convincing her parents that they needed a new refrigerator or kitchen table;
when her parents' replacement would arrive, she'd whisk the old one to her
center.
Just two months after she first visited
the prison, Basnet began to care for five children. She picked them up at the
prison every weekday morning, brought them to her center and then returned them
in the afternoon. Basnet's program was the first of its kind in Kathmandu; when
she started, some of the children in her care had never been outside a prison.
Two years later, Basnet established the
Butterfly Home, a children's home where she herself has lived for the past five
years. While she now has a few staff members who help her, Basnet is still very
hands on.
"We do cooking, washing,
shopping," she said. "It's amazing, I never get tired. (The children)
give me the energy. ... The smiles of my children keep me motivated."
Coordinating all of this is no easy
task. But at the Butterfly Home, the older kids help care for the younger ones
and everyone pitches in with household chores. The atmosphere feels like an
extremely large family, a feeling that's fostered by Basnet, who smothers the
children with love. The children reciprocate by calling her "Mamu,"
which means "Mommy."
"I don't ever get a day off, but
if I [didn't] have the children around me, it would be hard," she said.
"When I'm with them, I'm happy."
Her
biggest concern is trying to find ways to do more to give the children a better
future. She recently set up a bank account to save for their higher educations,
and one day she hopes to buy or build a house so they'll always have a place to
call home. Their happiness is always foremost in her thoughts.
"This
is what I want to do with my life," she said. "It makes me feel
(good) when I see that they are happy, but it makes me want to work harder. ...
I want to fulfill all their dreams."
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